My life in sex: ‘My wife wants a desire-free old age. But I still see her as my sexual partner’

The frustrated husband My wife and I married when we were in our early 20s. We enjoyed our sex life, though I never felt she enjoyed it as much as I did. Her menopause began when she was 50. Hot flushes were the main symptoms, accompanied by restless nights, irritability and a declining interest in sex. She decided not to take HRT, mainly because she was anxious about the increased risk of breast cancer . I suspect she was also quite happy to let nature take its course and enjoy a desire-free old age. Continue reading...